Stella Oluebube Reporting
Christabel Egbenya, a Nollywood actress, has advised women to stop acting as their partners’ wives on social media.
On Friday, March 24, she posted a video with this advice on her Instagram page. She asserts that males do not value women who cook, clean, and have sexual relations with them prior to marriage.
She warned ladies against staying over night after night at their boyfriend’s home because it would leave him with nothing to look forward to after they get married.
The wife, a mother of one, said she did not perform any manual labor at her husband’s home previous to their marriage.
She also opposed the idea of financially assisting a man prior to marriage because it does not guarantee that he will marry the woman.
Her words,
“This message if for all you who are yet to get married, yet you pack your bags to man’s house turning yourself into his wife. You will wash, iron, cook his foods. Wash his bathroom and give him access to all your sexual parts. Tomorrow when he dumps for another person, you will start crying and complaining. Why will he not dump you? When you have offered him all you have. Stop being a wifey when he has not paid your bride price. “
“Ask around, for me I don’t go to men’s house to cook when I was still single. Cook and wash for you? Have I finished cooking and washing for myself? If I manage to go a man’s house to spend a day, he would be thankful. Because, I don’t usually do that. Also stop giving them money, so you will not be disappointed when they eventually end up not marrying you.”