According to a Nigerian author named Oyinkansola Alabi, the reason why wives leave their spouses once they move overseas is because the men are rigid and patriarchal.
In a message on the Twitter, Oyinkansola said that divorces between Nigerian spouses in Western countries are due to the behavior of the men.
She stated that no sane woman would leave their husband if he treated them justly and equitably while they were living in Nigeria.
She wrote;
“I keep seeing tweets about some women dumping their men abroad. The truth is evil has no gender so anyone can switch up on you. Men have been dumping their wives for “papers” since the world began.
Secondly, a good woman who is treated well will most likely not switch up on you. The truth some of you need to accept is you were unkind, unsupportive, and patriarchal to your woman while you were in Nigeria, and you received your report card abroad.
No normal human will stay with a wicked soul. If you are wicked to your partner abroad they will dump you so please stop this emotional blackmail about women dumping their partners.
Yes, women are dumping their horrible partners and more of it will happen if the men refuse to be human. You are no longer in the lawless crime scene called, Nigeria.”
See her tweet below
